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Etiquette Editorial

For all you newly engaged couples out there, you may not realize that are many traditional rules and etiquette that you may want to consider when you start to plan your wedding. For many, the toughest part is knowing where to begin, and we're going to do our best to guide you along one of the most exciting journeys of your life. 

First things First: Creating a Guest List

Before you can plan anything else, you must first determine how many people you will be able to invite to the wedding. Much of this decision depends on who is paying for the wedding and what the budget looks like. If your parents are footing the bill, it is usually best to sit down with mom or dad first to discuss who they want on the guest list. If both sets of parents are contributing, both you and your fiance should discuss this with each other's parents. Afterwards, the two of you may decide which friends and other guests you wish to invite.

However, not every modern bride follows the traditional rules and may choose a different route for planning. Since the wedding is about you and your fiance, it is also acceptable to first sit down with the groom to discuss who the two of you wish to invite. Once the two of you have made an initial list, you can each talk to your parents and arrive at a total number of guests.

Insider Secrets:
If you're not sure which route would be better for you, it may be best to individually discuss traditions and expectations with both the groom and your families. Asking questions and being vocal about your preferences is the best way to avoid stepping on anyone's toes and making anyone feel disrespected during the planning process.

Once you have decided on your number of guest, you can begin to scope out appropriate venues!

All That Glitters is Rose Gold

Welcome to 2016! Since our bridal show on January 10th, we have been gushing with excitement over what this year will bring! What better way to kick off the month of love than with some shiny new bridal trends? Our theme in the store this week is all about the Rose Gold and Metallic color schemes and we thought we would share some of these amazing ideas with you.

1. Metallic Trends
We know we aren't the only ones who are obsessing over the gold and silver wedding theme. The little bits of sparkle and shine are a stunning way to liven up your reception venue. You can incorporate this style by adding a glitzy table runner, a sprinkle (or two) of gold to your cake, and delicate tea light candles to your centerpieces. The soft, but snazzy, details will create a whimsical and inviting feel that will have your guests excited to celebrate with you!

2. Bright On
When the sun goes down, the lights go up! Keep the evening from dulling your shine by choosing the best lighting to make those metallic accents sparkle. We love the look of Edison lights for an outdoor reception or a glowing, magnificent chandelier for a grand venue. The right lighting should bring out the warmth in the metallic hues!

3. Glitzy Gold
Our favorite way to embrace Gold is with your wedding ensemble. Some of our favorites include these breathtaking Ian Stuart gowns. Of course you can't forget your bridesmaids, and we are so excited about our new Christina Wu sequined dresses! The metallic and glitzy gold trends are all about being bold and taking risks, so don't be afraid to bring in the shine in other ways too. Adding a gold belt can accentuate the waist line and a bronze bouquet will really set you apart!

Shine with elegant sparkle or be the best BLUSHing bride in one of these stunning couture Ian Stuart gowns!

Photo Credit: carillo; ianstuart-bride; wilmingtonuplighting; adornmagazine; bridalmusings; modwedding