10 Things to Know Before Shopping for Your Wedding Gown

Congratulations, you're engaged! Now it's time to begin the hunt for the perfect dress. Before you even hit the stores, there are some things you should know about the process of finding your dream wedding gown. Here's our list of top 10 things you should know before shopping for your wedding dress.

1. Set Your Budget

Wedding gowns are available in a wide range of styles and prices, so shopping can be overwhelming if you don't have a starting price point in mind. It is important for a good bridal shopping experience to establish the maximum amount you are comfortable spending on your wedding dress because it is more difficult for you and your consultant when there is no price budget to go by. Communicating this with your consultant is the best and easiest route to finding a dream dress without breaking the bank. It is advisable to remember to factor in additional costs such as alterations, veils or headpieces, crinolines, and other accessories you might be interested in. If you do find a dress that is over budget but you can't live without, remember that you can adjust other areas of your wedding budget to create wiggle room. This day is about you and you should be happy in your dream dress, but also comfortable with the amount spent when you leave the store.

2. It's Never Too Early to Start Looking for Your Wedding Gown

As soon as that ring is on your finger, it's pretty much go-time on shopping for your wedding gown. The first two things brides should select are their venue and then the wedding gown. Your dress should compliment your venue, which is why these two things go hand in hand. Wedding gowns typically take 6-8 months to come in. For most brides, the wedding dress is the most delicate and lovely thing they will ever wear, and it takes designers time to craft a fabulous gown. If you plan on having a long engagement, purchasing your dress in advance can be beneficial. Some boutiques offer layaway options and payment plans so you don't have to spend all your money at once. If you are having a short engagement, or did not get around to wedding dress shopping early on, there are always sample gowns available for purchase.

3. Have a Plan

Like all good plans, research and appointment-making go a long way. We always tell our brides to get a Pinterest (if they don't already have one) for wedding inspiration. We also suggest wedding magazines and even a good dose of  'Say Yes to the Dress!' Bridal consultants are professionally trained to know what silhouettes will look best on you, but we need your opinion as well. It helps to know if you absolutely can't stand lace or would rather get married in your underwear than in a ball gown before you enter the bridal salon. Appointments are also highly suggested when shopping for your wedding gown. Most bridal salons, specialty shops, and department stores don't operate on a walk-in schedule. Although a lot of bridal salons DO allow walk-ins, appointments are recommended so the stylist knows you are coming and already has an idea of what you're thinking. It's best to be in the 'bridal state of mind', which can be done by planning early and booking your appointment. A consultant's goal is to help you recreate your vision by guiding you to a dress that compliments your venue, body, and personality.

4. Limit Your Entourage 

It's completely normal to want second or third opinions when trying on your wedding gown. This is "the dress of all dresses" after all, and who better to be there than your closest friends and family? However, we think it's best to think long and hard about who you will be bringing. Have a bestie who has always been a little bit jealous of you? Probably not a good idea to bring her. Or an aunt that has zero filter? Not exactly the person you want helping you find your gown. It is important to bring a positive entourage of people who will be on the same page as you throughout your appointment. As fun and exciting as shopping for a wedding gown is, it can also become overwhelming, and it doesn't help when there is too much "noise" from your friends or family, which can end up clouding your judgement. Remember: In the end, all that matters is that you love the dress.

5. Expect the Unexpected

Bridal salons tell you to keep an open mind for a reason... You might actually look good in styles you thought you wouldn't like! We have brides come in all the time saying they want this and that, and they leave with the complete opposite. If this happens to you, don't be disappointed! So what if you've been pinning mermaid gowns for the last year, just to find out they don't flatter you at all. This is why you try things on! You will find your wedding gown, and it will be the perfect gown for you. Keep an open mind, listen to your bridal consultants suggestions, and you will be one step closer to walking down the aisle.

6. Don't Forget About the Big Picture

Is this wedding dress going to drop jaws when you walk down that aisle? Is it everything you ever wanted? Will you be able to sit in it comfortably during the toasts? And dance like crazy on the dance floor? These are just a few of the questions you should ask yourself when selecting a gown. If you can't envision the dress working in all scenarios, you may want to re-think it. You want to look beautiful, yes, but you also want to enjoy your night!

Note: A wedding gown is different than anything else you have ever worn before - it is going to take getting used to. There is a difference between feeling a little uncomfortable and feeling like you can barely move. We also suggest testing it out! Sit down while your trying on your gown, dance around a little bit, and really get a feel for how the dress fits you.

7. No Tears, No Problem

Despite the fact that every reality TV show has lead you (and everyone around you) to believe you will shed tears as soon as you come out in “the one,” this isn’t always the case. And that’s okay. Some brides cry at every single dress they put on. Some will never shed a single tear. Don't let whether you're crying or not determine whether you buy a dress or not. Go by your gut instinct and what you're feeling inside. 

8. Sometimes the First Dress is 'The One'

Just because this is the "dress of all dresses" does not mean you have to try on a million to find it. Sometimes it really is love at first sight! Usually, when this happens a bride will say, "But there's no way I can find it so quickly!" Yes, there is! Remember how I keep mentioning the bridal consultants are trained professionals? As soon as they see you and hear what kind of gown you're thinking of, they have options flying through their mind. They know what to put you in, and what you're likely to love. Therefore, finding your gown on the first try isn't all that shocking! We also have brides walk in, pick out a dress right away, and automatically know. It happens more often than you think, and there is nothing wrong with finding your dress so quickly! Relax and enjoy the moment. Having one of the biggest things off your plate means you can focus on other wedding planning details.

9. Don't Underestimate Great Shape Wear

Don’t underestimate the power of great shape wear. The gown of your dreams may not be perfect right off the rack. It may need alterations and it may need a little more shape, but these are easy fixes. Most bridal salons will have shape wear available for the bride to try on during their appointment. If they do not, once you say yes to the dress, you can go find what you need, and come re-try your gown on with the proper undergarments. A well-made corset or bustier can do wonders!

10. Dress Up (Just a Little!)

It might be difficult to imagine yourself walking down the aisle if you’re trying on dresses with post-yoga hair and no makeup. You don't need to spend hours preparing for your bridal appointment, but a little bit of makeup and styling could make all the difference. The gowns do go overhead when we dress you, so we don't suggest doing a fancy chignon; just that you feel your personal best by dressing up - just a little! It will be much easier to envision the big day, and help you to get in that 'bridal state of mind'.

Questions? Comments? Suggestions? We want to hear from you!

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Let Freedom Ring

Happy Thursday, everyone! Hopefully it's a short work week for all of you in anticipation of the upcoming holiday and you have something fun planned for the weekend.

First, I'd like to remind everyone that WE'VE MOVED and are officially open at our new location at 5200 E. Market St.! We are so thankful to all of our loyal and amazing customers. Without your love, patience, and support we wouldn't have made it through this transition as smoothly as we did. We are so excited and can't wait for all of you to come visit us in our new store!

Second, with the holiday coming up in a couple days, we wanted to take a moment to thank all of the military troops, friends, and family members. Veterans, active duty, and those who will serve in the future: we extend our gratitude to you on this, and every, day. Without you, we would not be able to enjoy the freedoms that we do. At Evaline's Bridal, we are proud to support our military brides by participating in the Brides Across America Event in the fall. Our goal is to give free wedding gowns to women who are either serving (or have recently served) in the military or are marrying someone who is. The event is just one small way that we strive to give back to those who deserve the respect and gratitude from our community. For more information about the event, please check out the Brides Across America website or contact us with any questions!

I hope everyone has a safe, fun, and beautiful Fourth of July celebration this weekend. To get you into the patriotic spirit just a little early, check out these festive patriotic wedding ideas!

Endearing Engagement
Show off your pride for the stars and stripes by incorporating the American flag into your engagement photos! Whether you're a military bride or not, you can't go wrong with our nations symbol of freedom wrapped about your shoulders!

Red, White, & Bridesmaids
The added bonus of hosting a patriotic themed wedding is that the color pallet is already done for you! Have your bridesmaids wear navy or royal blue or even a deep red or cranberry. It's easy to play with the right shades to fit your style and the theme, and don't forget: you get to wear the white!

Festive Favors
I mean, look at how cute these little mason jars are! These festive holiday favors are perfect for guests because they can use them year round. Plus, there are endless possibilities. We even like the idea of giving out little flags with your wedding details inscribed on them!

Sparkler Send-Off
There's no better time to whip out the sparklers than at the end of the reception as the newlyweds make their escape. If you're getting married on the Fourth of July, maybe you can even incorporate a fireworks display. Just remember to be safe!

Dazzling Details
Maybe you want to incorporate your patriotism in a more subtle way on your big day. The best way to do so is to sneak in little details as accents. We love this colorful bouquet, but you can also find a spirited garter or some blue and red shoes. Even just having a few small flags dotted in your flower and table displays are a cute and subtle way of showing off your pride!

Have any other ideas for a Fourth of July or patriotic wedding? Tell us what you think!

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Something Borrowed: Traditions from Around the World

As we approach the end of June, we are sad to say goodbye to our month of wedding traditions. However, as we get closer to one end, we are also taking our first steps toward a new, exciting beginning. We will be opening in our new location in less than two weeks and our whole team agrees that this adventure feels surreal. We are all going to miss our location in downtown Warren greatly, but change can only be for the better. We hope you are all getting excited too and we can't wait to reveal our gorgeous new store to all of our loyal customers!

In the spirit of change, we are talking about wedding traditions once more this month, but with a little twist. Many brides today are still deeply connected to their roots and their culture. For example, big Italian, Irish, and Greek families are still around and have generations of wedding traditions that will likely never fade out. However, some brides come from a line of mixed cultures and traditions and choosing which to honor on the big day may not always be the easiest decision.

For this final June post, we invite you to take a tour around the world with us! Perhaps your "something borrowed" can be one of these timeless traditions from a different culture or one of the many that make up your ancestry.

South Africa:
It's tradition in South Africa for the parents of the bride and groom to bring fire from their own homes to light the hearth of the newlyweds. The act is a symbol of unity as they bring together fire and light from their own childhoods into a fireplace they will both share.

Jumping the broom is another tradition from South Africa in which the newlyweds hop over a broom to symbolize sweeping away the past and leaping into their future together!

Poland:
A fun Polish wedding tradition is known as the money dance. Guests are invited to share a one-on-one dance with the bride, for a donation of course. The maid of honor is in charge of collecting the money which then goes toward the honeymoon fund. In more adventurous families, such as mine, the guests are given a shot to toss back before joining the bride on the dance floor!

Germany:
In Germany, it is customary for the bride and groom to immediately test the strength of their union after saying "I do." The newlyweds must prove their ability to work together as they saw a log in half in front of their guests. That sounds like an awful lot of hard work!

India:
In India, it is popular tradition to draw elaborate henna designs on the hands of the bride as well as her female friends and family members. Henna has many spiritual meanings and is generally used to show the intricate bond between a man and his wife.



Ireland:
Handfasting is an ancient Irish tradition in which the hands of the bride and groom are tied together with rope or ribbon to signify their unity. A similar tradition can be found in other cultures and is noted as the root of the famous phrase "tying the knot."

Peru/England:
In place of the bouquet toss, in is tradition for single female guests to participate in a different event in Peru. The wedding cake is made to include several pieces of ribbon baked into the layers. The female guests each pull a ribbon and the one to pull out a ring is said to be the next to marry. A slightly different version is done in England in which each ribbon has a different charm on the end and they are designed to tell the guest's future.

Labyrinth
One tradition that's gained some popularity is one that can be seen in a few different cultures. A wedding involving a labyrinth includes the bride and groom walking the path separately and joining in the middle for their ceremony. At the end, the two walk out together to symbolize the unity of their paths in life.

Which wedding traditions would you "borrow" for your special day?

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Sources: bridalguide; buzzfeed; destinationweddingmag; labyrinthsociety

3 Things Every Mom Should Know for the Ceremony

Good morning and happy Thursday! I hope the month of May is treating you all well, especially you, Moms! Just in case you need a little pick-me-up or enlightening read, here are the three things every mom should know as they prepare for their son or daughter's wedding ceremony.

1. What to Wear
In my experience, moms often get so wrapped up in helping their son or daughter prepare for their big day that they forget to think about themselves. In other cases, they put off finding the right dress because they don't like the way they look anymore. Well listen up, moms, you are beautiful and the wedding day is just as important for you as it is for the bride and groom. If you think you can just blend into the crowd and no one will notice, think again. While it's true that all eyes will be on the happy couple at first, the second place guests look is to their parents. So, here's a few tips to help you out.

• Don't wait until the last minute to go shopping! We have plenty of gorgeous gowns in stock, but if you need to order something, it can take a few months to come in, so don't wait! 
• Opt for better quality, not a cheaper dress. As I said before, you are important and you should look the part on your son or daughter's special day. Cheaper and lower quality fabrics may not be as flattering on your body, so keep that in mind if you're not as comfortable with your shape. 
• Talk to a consultant. We aren't just trained to help the bride-to-be find her dress, we can also be a big help when trying to select a flattering style gown for any occasion. 
• Consult the bride. You'll want to compliment her wedding colors without getting too close that you blend in with the bridesmaids. Neutral colors are often a safe choice if you're not sure, but a consultant can help you choose a color as well. 
• If you're the mother of the groom, allow the mother of the bride to select her gown first. The two of you should communicate so that your gowns compliment each other and also allow you to fit the theme and formality of the wedding. 

We love these classy dresses from Montage by Mon Cheri

2. What Time to Arrive:
If you're the mother of the groom, you should arrive at the church or ceremony venue with the groom, which should be about an hour and a half beforehand. You can help make sure that the groomsmen and their tuxedos are all in order. If you're the mother of the bride, you should arrive with the bride about an hour beforehand. That way you can help the bride get ready and be part of some extra special "getting ready photos!"

3. What to Do:
For the ceremony, Mother's of the bride traditionally are the first to walk down the aisle and take their seat in the first row on the left, marking the beginning of the processional. The role of the groom's mother depends on what the couple chooses. Typically, the mother of the groom is escorted to her seat by the groom before the processional. However, in some cases, the groom's parents walk down the aisle before the brides parents. It really depends on what the bride and groom envision, so communication is key. After the ceremony, it's common to host the receiving line immediately following the nuptials (Church hallways and vestibules often work best). The brides parents traditionally are placed at the head of the line, followed by the bride and groom and then the groom's parents.

Heads Up to the Bride and Groom: 
The ceremony can be the perfect opportunity for some extra special moments with mom. Make sure your photographer captures those tender exchanges as she helps you get ready. Another way to pay homage to your mothers is to take a moment, before you begin your vows, to present them with a kiss or a rose. The small gesture will be enough to really enhance the beauty of the ceremony and your mom will be more than grateful!

Want to share a special Mother of the Wedding story? We want to hear it! 

Photo Credit: brides.com; emmalinebride; weddingpartyapp

Mother's Rehearsal Dinner Responsibilities

Listen up, Mother's of the Groom, this blog post will be especially helpful for you! In this day and age more and more couples are starting to mix and match which traditions and customs to follow when it comes to planning the smaller events leading up to the big day, such as the rehearsal dinner and the bridal shower. It's important to remember that each couple is unique and that you should always consult the bride and groom before making any plans to ensure you coincide with their wishes. That being said, we're giving you a crash course on your responsibilities as the Mother of the Groom when it comes to the wedding rehearsal dinner.

Traditionally, the groom's parents are expected to host and pay for the rehearsal dinner. The dinner used to take place the night before the wedding, but now it is becoming more common for it to occur up to a few days beforehand (this allows the wedding party some time to straighten out any last minute details before saying "I Do.") If you've never done this before, you may be asking yourself "What is the purpose of the wedding rehearsal?" Basically, the rehearsal dinner is just that - a rehearsal for the big day. It typically involves meeting at the ceremony location so that the wedding party can walk through their basic responsibilities for the day of the wedding. The dinner usually follows after and can be as formal or as casual as you'd like (this is where it becomes important to communicate with the bride and groom). The dinner is a chance for both families to get together and socialize, especially if you have family members from out of town since it may be difficult to get everyone together again in the future.

Here are some timeline tips to keep in mind: We recommend that you book the venue as soon as possible, but generally somewhere within 3-6 months out should be fine. If you're planning something more casual, you may be able to wait even longer, but it's always safer to plan ahead. We also recommend that you send out invitations no later than 4 weeks out from the event, after the wedding invitations have been mailed.

What's most important is to remember not to get too caught up in the planning and organizing that you forget to enjoy the event. It's a time to learn and grow as a connected family and share in the laughter and love that will surround everyone in this happy time. So, eat and drink and spend time with the bride and groom and never forget why you're all together!

P.S. Brides and Grooms: The rehearsal dinner is a wonderful opportunity to hand out any small gifts you have for your wedding party and especially your mothers! We are in love with these adorable ideas that can get mom ready for your special day!

If you still need ideas, check out these links. They have great tips for rehearsal dinner etiquette.
Mother of the Groom Duties
Rehearsal Dinner Etiquette

Questions? We'd love to hear from you! Leave us a comment! 

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Bridal Shower Etiquette: What to Wear

The days are getting longer, the weather is getting warmer, and the bridal shower invitations are probably starting to pile up! What you may not know is that there is an etiquette to follow when it comes to what you should wear to a bridal shower. Don't get me wrong, no one should ever tell you what to wear, but understanding the unspoken rules of attire is about respecting and honoring the bride on her special day. So, listen up ladies: here's everything you need to know about picking your outfit for a bridal shower!

If you're the bride:
As the guest of honor, the shower is all about you, so don't be afraid to stand out! You're the only one who has the right to wear white, so seize your moment in the spotlight. Or, if you're the shy type and you worry about having all of the attention, you can opt for ivory or nude and even play with accent colors to make yourself feel a little more comfortable.

If you're a guest:
Your job is to shower the bride with love and surround her with friendship and congratulations, not steal the show. With this is mind, the first rule as a guest is to avoid wearing white; in fact, it's best to avoid ivory and light nude as well. Think of the shower etiquette as an extension of how you would behave at a wedding. You wouldn't wear white to that, now would you? Instead, opt for solid colors or prints. I would suggest avoiding black as well, unless the shower theme calls for it!

Of course the style all boils down to the formality of the gathering. Here are some outfit ideas for brides and guests based on the different types of themes!

Princess Theme

Breakfast at Tiffany's

Formal

Casual

Vintage/Boho

Garden Party

Questions? Comments? Tell us what you think! 

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